My grandmother used to tell me that one of the things you never want to lose is your temper, so if you keep a close watch on it, you won’t lose it easily.
Grandma always had a good sense of humor, but there really was wisdom in those words. In this world where we live at such a quick pace, rushing to work, rushing to finish errands, working to get things done, or put away, running running all the time, it is easy to grow impatient.
I confess there have been times when the cashier was carrying on a grand conversation with the person in front of me and I wanted to ask them to trade phone numbers and catch up later. Still, what’s the real harm? Why is it a crime to pause briefly and exchange pleasantries? Is being polite, kind and friendly becoming a lost art?
Of course there is a place and time and a conversation at the checkout stand should technically only last as long as it takes to ring up the purchases, a sort of unspoken courtesy to the other people waiting in line, but still, we shouldn’t huff, puff and growl when someone says hello.
Nothing irritates me more than being at a red light and the light barely turns red when the guy behind me lays down on the horn. Well, you just bought a slow start from me, Buddy.
I think one of the things that really bothers me are the people who are dragging some exhausted, screaming toddler around the store. The kid is worn out, mom or dad is flustered, embarrassed and there’s no possible way they will remember everything they needed to get at the store anyway. All that to be accompanied by glares of all the other customers and workers at the store who are enduring the ear piercing screams of a tired child. Yet, I have been there a couple of times with a sick baby and no choice but to go and get medicine, I sympathize.
In any case, it temper should rarely come into play. We are all busy, we all have places to go, people to see, things to get done and the same amount of time to do it all. If we are short tempered because we are constantly rushed, then perhaps the answer is better time management.
A wise person said – it’s nice to feel important, but much more important to be nice. In the end we are all remembered for the things we’ve done. Wouldn’t you rather be remembered for doing the right thing at the right time, or being kind, generous, happy, funny, or anything at all other than the person that couldn’t control their temper?
Cherry Coley ©